Review: “The Ethical Slut (3rd Ed.)” by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

Review: “The Ethical Slut (3rd Ed.)” by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

When a piece of media is so iconic, when it is so prolific on bookshelves across the polyamorous community, it creates an incredibly high standard that all but challenges me to find flaws. Could The Ethical Slut really be as good as everyone says?

Yes. Yes, it could. I just don’t think it’s actually about polyamory. 

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What Is Hierarchical Polyamory (And Is It Toxic)?

What Is Hierarchical Polyamory (And Is It Toxic)?

While Hierarchical Polyamory can be used as a tool of control, I don't believe it is inherently toxic. It is possible to create healthy, ethical, hierarchical polyamorous relationships. But that can only work if people understand what they are getting into. 

So, let's take a moment to explore the concept of Hierarchical Polyamory and whether or not it's always unethical.

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Review: “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hook-Ups, Love, Porn, Consent and Navigating the New Masculinity” by Peggy Orenstein
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Review: “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hook-Ups, Love, Porn, Consent and Navigating the New Masculinity” by Peggy Orenstein

In “Boys & Sex”, Peggy Orenstein presents an honest, raw, and oftentimes heartbreaking exploration of how modern sex and relationship culture affects boys and young men. If you are a man looking to build better relationships, then this book is the step you need to take to better understand yourself. 

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What is Compersion?

What is Compersion?

If there is one word you will find yourself seeing a lot when you start your journey into polyamory, it will be the word "compersion". But what exactly is compersion, and why is it such a big part of people's discussions about ethical non-monogamy? Let’s take a closer look at it, its relationship with jealousy, and how it might be the key to healthier relationships. 

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