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Is it Polyamory or Ethical Non-Monogamy?
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Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022

Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?

How close should you be with your partner’s other partner?

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6 Relationship Models You Need to Know
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022

6 Relationship Models You Need to Know

There is no “right” way to create a polyamorous relationship, so let explore some of the many different options available.

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Does Monogamy Even Exist?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022

Does Monogamy Even Exist?

It might be time to change the way we define relationships and step away from traditional ideas.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous

And today, for our last post, I wanted to talk about one of the most universal lessons I've taken on board: the fact we are all polyamorous.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - Monogamy and Polyamory are the same thing
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Monogamy and Polyamory are the same thing

There’s a big secret about the polyamorous lifestyle. And I believe I’ve uncovered it. And, once you know it, it blows the whole monogamy versus polyamory debate wide open. 

Polyamory and monogamy are the same thing!

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Polyamory Week 2022 - Relationships Skills = Universal Life Skills
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Relationships Skills = Universal Life Skills

How I came to the realisation that my job had taught me the skills needed for polyamory.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - The Hidden Truth About Breakups
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - The Hidden Truth About Breakups

How ethical non-monogamy and the end of my marriage taught me the truth about how to live through a breakup.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - Taking control of my own happiness
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Taking control of my own happiness

Only I have control of my own wellbeing, but I only came to any clear understanding of this when polyamory forced me to actively address my relationship with relationships.

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Polyamory Week 2022 - The friends I met along the way
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 08/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 08/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - The friends I met along the way

I’ve often asked, “What is the main benefit of polyamory?”

Well, it’s not what I was expecting when I began my journey, but I wouldn’t give up my new friends for the world.

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Polyamory Week 2022
Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 07/02/2022 Polyamory, Polyamory Week 2022, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 07/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022

It’s Polyamory Week 2022, and this year I will be exploring all the unexpected things polyamory has brought into my life.

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What Exactly is Couple Privilege?
Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 16/12/2021 Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 16/12/2021

What Exactly is Couple Privilege?

How does it happen, and how do we fight it?

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Going to a Sex Party? Prepare To Be Disappointed
Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 20/09/2021 Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 20/09/2021

Going to a Sex Party? Prepare To Be Disappointed

Sometimes the fantasy and the reality simply don’t match

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I’m Not Polyamorous Because I’m A Slut
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 24/08/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 24/08/2021

I’m Not Polyamorous Because I’m A Slut

I mean, I’m both. But the two things are unconnected.

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When Is The Right Time To Tell Someone You Are Polyamorous?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 06/08/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 06/08/2021

When Is The Right Time To Tell Someone You Are Polyamorous?

Ethical non-monogamy can be a dealbreaker, but we can’t hide from it forever

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Here’s What Went Wrong When We Hooked Up With A Couple
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 03/08/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 03/08/2021

Here’s What Went Wrong When We Hooked Up With A Couple

We forgot the most important thing… more than once.

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8 (More) Common Misconceptions About Polyamory
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 14/07/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 14/07/2021

8 (More) Common Misconceptions About Polyamory

Continuing to disabuse your of the misconceptions you didn’t know you had

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Communicating boundaries at any point in a relationship
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 08/07/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 08/07/2021

Communicating boundaries at any point in a relationship

She didn’t know what would make her unhappy until it was too late.

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7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Begin Polyamory
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Definitions Thomas H. Brand 02/07/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Definitions Thomas H. Brand 02/07/2021

7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Begin Polyamory

It’s time to prepare yourself to step into the unknown.

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Why On Earth Would Anyone Want To Be Polyamorous?
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 24/06/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Common Questions about Polyamory Thomas H. Brand 24/06/2021

Why On Earth Would Anyone Want To Be Polyamorous?

This one comment seems to be appearing more and more often. So apparently, this is a growing opinion.

So let’s unpack this, shall we?

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“Cheating but telling your partner” and other nonsense you’ll hear when you’re polyamorous
Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 15/06/2021 Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy Thomas H. Brand 15/06/2021

“Cheating but telling your partner” and other nonsense you’ll hear when you’re polyamorous

When you live a life that differs from the norm, people get scared. And scared people lash out. And so, if you’re polyamorous, prepare for some negative reactions.

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