Review: “The Ethical Slut (3rd Ed.)” by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

Review: “The Ethical Slut (3rd Ed.)” by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton

When a piece of media is so iconic, when it is so prolific on bookshelves across the polyamorous community, it creates an incredibly high standard that all but challenges me to find flaws. Could The Ethical Slut really be as good as everyone says?

Yes. Yes, it could. I just don’t think it’s actually about polyamory. 

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Review: “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hook-Ups, Love, Porn, Consent and Navigating the New Masculinity” by Peggy Orenstein
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Review: “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hook-Ups, Love, Porn, Consent and Navigating the New Masculinity” by Peggy Orenstein

In “Boys & Sex”, Peggy Orenstein presents an honest, raw, and oftentimes heartbreaking exploration of how modern sex and relationship culture affects boys and young men. If you are a man looking to build better relationships, then this book is the step you need to take to better understand yourself. 

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Review: “polywise: A Deeper Dive in Navigating Open Relationships” By Jessica Fern with David Cooley

Review: “polywise: A Deeper Dive in Navigating Open Relationships” By Jessica Fern with David Cooley

Between this book and her previous book, polysecure, I have become a big fan of Jessica Fern's work. And of the two, in my opinion, polywise is the superior book, offering easy-to-digest breakdowns of some of the root causes of the problems many of us suffer through when opening up our relationships and the advice and frameworks needed to navigate them.

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